Huh? Facebook bra color status updates explained
If you’ve spent any time perusing Facebook status updates today and noticed a slew of single word color statuses from your female friends and feel a little out of the loop, you’re not alone. Twitter’s abuzz with people, both annoyed and supportive, chatting about the mysterious surge in “colorful” updates.
Turns out that the updates are the bra colors of your friends and spread through messages on the social networking site. (Side note: apparently I have a lot of free-hanging friends who posted “nothing.”) There’s different theories floating around about the updates with some messages claiming the viral movement is meant to “confuse boys” and others saying it's all in the name of breast cancer awareness.
Yay for breast cancer awareness, but is this really the best way to go about it? Discuss amongst yourselves.
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It was a reason for guys to chat dirty to girls.
all i saw was crude comments, in the groups.
@soccerchick Other types of of support are indeed desirable, HOWEVER... making EVERYONE, particularly women, aware enough to do regular breast examinations saves lives, and is something anyone can do, regardless of financial circumstances.
Don't get me wrong, I agree that everyone needs to be aware, but the current, popular ways to go about it are just not as effective as they should be. The bandwagon crazes for causes what grate my nerves the most.
Agreed on almost all counts. I *DO* think the symbols are a good thing ... BUT... pink ribbons have been tied to the breast cancer foundation, not any prevention, mammograms, or breast exam.
Part of this is because it was more about raising funds than actual awareness... awareness has just been something of a buzzword.
there needs to be a transformation of awareness, and a symbol that DOES lead to people thinking about early detection for them and those around them.
@ soccerchick2002, what logo you think would work to make people remember things like monthly self checking or annual mamograms?
Widely known information beyond that is stunningly scarce. you get a pink ribbon or a card with a pink ribbon, you do not get info on breast exams on the back. You get thank you for your donation. The woman (not man) in your life that had breast cancer will be thankful you shelled out.
Breast cancer is more easily treated if it is found early. Experts recommend that women age 20 and older examine their breasts once a month during the week following the menstrual period. Women between the ages 20 and 39 should have a doctor examine their breasts at least once every 3 years. After age 40, women should have a mammogram every 1 - 2 years, depending on their risk factors and a complete breast exam by a health care provider every year. Women should call their doctor immediately if they notice a change in their breasts whether or not they do routine breast self-exams. Certain women at high risk for breast cancer may have a breast MRI along with their yearly mammogram. Ask your doctor if your need an MRI.
The problem with the "raise awareness" cliche is that all you DO is raise awareness. It does not lower apathy, no matter if you get twelve people talking, or a million.
What if, instead of "awareness" you substituted "money," and tied the wink-winking status update spam to a link or site for donations, or redirected to organizations actively trying to eliminate cancer and desperately need funding?
Making a buzz is easy. Making a difference is not. After a while, people don't care.
Hey guys, how about our own cause? :P
http://otherparty.wordpress.com/2010/01/08/the-other-cancer-awareness-cause/
This was different, got attention, pulled people's minds out of what they were doing for a few minutes, and got a whole bunch of people talking about it. Considering that it was a no-cost stunt, I'd say it was pretty darn effective even with some botched messages and crude comments.
Guys can post their boxer colors and fight back!
I Googled "what do facebook colors mean" and selected one of the top links
which opened a browser with a fake view of a pc systems folder with mounting virus warnings
every attempt to leave the page by clicking CANCEL (instead of OK to download the exe file) just kept continually repeating the request in a new window
The only way to stop it was to Ctrl Alt Delete and choose END TASK
and then restart my computer
Was very aggressive and obviosuly malware....Makes me wonder how newbies would handle it.
http://errwhateverz.wordpress.com/2010/01/08/dear-boobs-bras-and-facebook-users/
B. Telling people your bra color doesn't make anyone aware of anything except your bra color.
C. We men are so thankful that women are taking the time to remind us that women have *those* - since we're likely to forget, what with all the meaningful conversation and looking you in the eye. Durrrrrrrrr.....
D. This isn't really about cancer, it's about showmanship. It's just using cancer for self-gratification, to feel "cute," "racy," "breezy," or whatever. It's not true that any publicity is good publicity. This stunt is just dumb, and it flippantly tarnishes a serious matter. Cancer is no joke.
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?v=wall&gid=234297374093
today was like heaven when all my female colleague participated in diz bizzare yet entertaining post! i got to kno their bra colors when all these days i juz wondering bout it....its like getting a cheat code for a game! instead of Sally, Wanda or Janice, my mindset change their name into blue, red wif laces, n gold~
u kno guys are mostly driven by one urge n diz is like promoting it more than promoting breast cancer or wateva freakin thing u wanna promote...
this is like 20% porn! never knew women cld be diz gullible~
really cool~ please make it a daily routine so we guys dun hav to peek anymore! thx a bunch for makin it easier!
People are aware, this is retarded. If you really want to help, dontate some money and stop wasting time doing nothing (updating facebook statuses) if you truly care.
Blue Boxers
For those of you saying that this does nothing for breast cancer awareness...you're talking about it, aren't you??
For those who say this was a stunt between the girls to keep the men out....I'll leave it at that...
I'm sure I'm not alone in the fact that I thought about breast cancer every time I saw a new post - it is up to us to educate ourselves, but awareness is the first necessity to prompting the desire for more information in most cases....
I'm quite sure that this did more good than finding a star fruit tree or baby penguin for farmville........
The best way to stay healthy, vibrant, sexy and disease free (breast cancer free) is to eat the foods listed in this great yet very simple text:
http://vegan182.blogspot.com/2010/01/what-i-eat.html
If it is not listed in the list, don't put it in your mouth (no toothpaste and no alcohol you got that right sister).
"Yo I'm a mom I have kids you know. I ate dead flesh, stolen milk and alcohol all my life. I now suffer from breast cancer and I demand a cure for it, now! Oh by the way my bra is yellow today."
But whtevr it is,I'm glad tht females hv revealed their privacy..
I wish the next thing is the BRA SIZE
http://www.facebook.com//group.php?v=feed&story_fbid=244370632281&gid=244021562281
If it was about suckering women into giving out intimate info about themselves on facebook, it was a STUNNING success.
About the only actual useful information I have seen anyone get would be from those who brought up that men can also get breast cancer, something not widely known (outside of KISS and rolling stone magazine fans). This was clearly not only not the point of, but directly contrary to the presumed reason for the whole stunt.
whats that supposed to mean/??
That is the only explanation that makes sense. It did not come from cancer support groups or anyone who had a loved one die or survive breast cancer. Anyone who has knows that the one thing that a breast cancer survivor cannot wear is a bra, so any viral campaign that featured women talking about their bras would be unnecessarily cruel. This whole campaign was predecated on a gross underestimation of the straight male's ability to read sexual inuendo into even the most innocuous of statements. Most of us figured out what was going on early on, and now we are put in the awkward position of interacting with a female coworker, subordinate, or church goer,etc. who just told us that she is wearing a lime green bra.
Are Putting On Their Facebook Status Watch The Video Right Now
"Facebook Bra Color Status Updates Explained"
►http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9ZfM8AqxgE
Married throw out your ring
Unmarried - no problem
Teens over 18 - no problem
There is enough Studs
Requirement for Ladies to Chose a Stud:
1. Man must be 5'11" or taller
2. Man must not be married
** Just go up and offer yourselves in Public if need be ***
If you think you have a better idea....how about you contribute to the site or share your stories. Hello, bra's can pick you up physically and mentally! They make you feel pretty :)
Love the bra your in and be thankful!
a)It was big, therefore the net affect was positive. People are talking and the words "breast cancer" are being heard, therefore it was a success. The very presence of an opposing opinion is, regardless of the content of that opposing opinion, grounds to maintain this position.
or
b)The statement that there's no such thing as bad press... is just plain FALSE. "buzz" without actual information raises nothing but irritation towards a very good and noble cause. Almost everyone talking about it clearly already knows as much about breast cancer as the campaign spread, read it's existence (as regards women. The campaign was expressly exclusive of men). Further, for this arguably minimal gain, it has offended many, making fund raising more, not less difficult.
It is reasonably clear that most, by now, have their opinions, are not taking both sides of the discussion seriously any more (or never did), and will not change their views. Both sides have been presented, sometimes more clearly than others. As such, there's little more for me to say, other than this ...
Everyone, please, read and take seriously the other side (even such sides as I do not agree with or did not speak for). Think before you pick your stance, then think again once you have heard other points of view.
The important thing is not to stop questioning. - Albert Einstein
Peace
Five things that people could do that would actually be productive are:
1. Call your Congressperson and demand that they pass effective heath care reform that makes it affordable and accessible for women to get effective screening and appropriate treatment if they are diagnosed.
2. Register yourself on the bone marrow registry.
3. Donate to an effective cancer organization, like Breast Cancer Action.
4. Tell your general practicioner about how young adults can and do get cancer - 70,000 per year - as many general practicioners overlook the fact that young adult patients can get cancer.
5. Learn how to use PubMed.gov so that you can be well-informed about the latest studies and research on how to prevent, diagnose, and treat cancer.
Perhaps someone can start a Facebook meme to promote these things, and then the media could cover it.
& Brought Global Awareness Back To Breast Cancer
"Facebook Bra Color Status Updates Explained"
►http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9ZfM8AqxgE
►http://www.youtube.com/cbbcf
►http://www.Causes.com/thecbbcf
If you wish you can also make a donation to your local Hicks Foundation for Cervical Cancer Awareness or to the National Chaper at
www.freepap.org/
Thank You.
For the record, I have witnessed the death of loved ones from cancer.
I know 2 people right now who are still alive - 1 who has beat it (mind you, she had 26 lumps but surpassed her 5 yr mark awhile ago!) The other one is still courageous. Both women are the strongest women I know and have the BEST attitudes! To my Aunt Dar, I love you ....you are my role model.
Please join this group to help create awareness for breast cancer research!
Eg:- " urg I'm so f***ing upset cause my friend posted red as her status on facebook"
Read that out loud and hear how pathetic it sounds, so if u can't go with the flow, do us supporters a favour and stay out of it!!!!
Here in Australia we have the highest rates of skin cancer in the world. We have MO-vember for me to wear mustaches to promote awareness of prostrate cancer. Lots of people are talking and some will do something. That's a lot better than nothing. My hats off to those who started both the fun and I hope I started some more!
Here's one to start off with:
http://www.webfetti.com/MySpace/Glitter/Awareness/Pink-Ribbon-_-Breast-Cancer.jhtml
And for those who want to feel all pervy about this, you are sad individuals if all it takes is knowing the color of a woman's bra to "titillate" your over-active libido (pun intended). Grow up.
Why don't you think for once - otherwise why don't you just paste your nude photos all over the net?
You'd think we were all posting photos of our bras and their contents, with the way you're reacting. For your own safety, Jay, please don't turn on a television; you may very well end up the victim of a fatal heart condition should a commercial for a feminine product happen to appear!
1st of all you are not on TV - this is the real world. TV is TV and American TV is pretty mild on SEX - go to Canada they are even more looser with language, nudity, and sexual themes.
2. A lot of Women make the mistake of actually placing their places of Employment, their Home Addresses, Phone Numbers on their Facebook pages. So someone who has a fixation on you can come to your home and knock on your door or stalk you. Oh, really this stuff happens - duh!
http://www.tmcnet.com/usubmit/2009/04/06/4110964.htm
3. There are groups on Facebook that advocate getting the info off the pages to rape women - there is a case in Australia currently and several in the US - they claim if women post it they are within their rights to expect it in return.
http://www.csmonitor.com/Commentary/Opinion/2010/0106/What-Facebook-s-pro-rape-group-says-about-our-culture-of-sexual-assault
So think again about what you put on your page - you don't know what freaks can concoct in their minds and a warning they are all over the place....
Here's the next game... This will definitely get the guys thinking!
To see if they've got dirty minds or not (of course they have!)
It's not rude at all... lol.
This is about your favourite bar of chocolate.
Select your favourite chocolate bar from the list below and update your status with the following sentence next to it then send this message/game to every woman you know on facebook! Its that simple lol!
Cadbury's Creme Egg = likes to strip off, open and lick!
Ripple/Snickers = likes its long and hard!
Twix/Kit Kat - likes it 2 at a time, double the pleasure!
Double Decker = likes it to be smooth on the outside but hard inside!
Flake = likes it when they crumble into submission!
Troberone = likes it rippled for pleasure!
Big Bar Of Dairy Milk = likes it the bigger, the better!
Fruit&Nut Dairy Milk = likes it wild and fruity!
Whole Nut Dairy Milk = likes it when they have big nuts!
If you are not one of chocolate = likes nothing better than to suck and gag!
SEND THIS TO GIRLS ONLY and please let's keep women's little guilty pleasures a secret, we don't want the men to know everything about us! Let's keep them guessing lol!
The message: "write the color of your bra in your status. Just the color, nothing else. And send this on to ONLY girls, no men .... It will be neat to see if this will spread the wings of CANCER awareness. It will be fun to see how long it takes before the men will wonder why all the girls have a color in their status. and when they do ask you keep it from them for a few min and then tell them so they can help spread the word also."
That is when I posted my color....by the way the message I got was not to exclude guys, alot of the guys i know started posting colors not as a joke but to help raise awareness.... and look at this sight and how EVERYONE on here is talking about cancer... rather it be breast cancer, cervical or any other kind of cancer.... YOU ALL ARE TALKING ABOUT IT.... So awareness worked!!!! have a great day!!
But i really live to support those great fighter of that deadly disease as managing fundraising campaign.
Pink Ribbon fundraising
natural breast enlarger
i really agree with this idea
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