To succeed in life, you need just one thing
If that's true, then the best diet is the simplest one. So I asked myself: what's the one thing I can change that will make the biggest difference in my calorie consumption? Everyone has one thing.
When Peter Bregman says "everyone," he means everyone and everything. His suggestion is, well, quite singular: To be successful in life—whether you are dieting, starting a business, or even planning a sabbatical—the trick is to identify the one thing that carries the most influence and pour your existence into that one task. He writes:
Typically, people overwhelm themselves with tasks in their eagerness to make a change successfully. But that’s a mistake. Instead, they should take the time up front to figure out the one and only thing that will have the highest impact and then focus 100% of their effort on that one thing.
What would happen in your professional or personal life if you concentrated on one single, ragingly important aspect? What would that be? A thought-provoking and important question for anyone.
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Comments (13)
Great post... Thanks
I've heard Sugar Ray Leonard refer to it as tunnel vision. It's definately a technique I'm attempting to develop.
In reality it is a bit of a challenge in the real world.
For example, let's say you're in a relationship and you put 100% of your focus on your children, job or the household chores and not balance it to include your hubby...someone's NOT going to be happy.
Would you prefer your house be the cleanest, your children be the prettiest and your husband complaining and grumpy?
For me a successful balance is something more like a 80/20 split where I PRIORITIZE my attention in the direction it's most needed. It may not be rocket science but it works.
This was a thought provoking article to determine what WILL work for each of us.
Thanks all for sharing.
When you're at work, focus on the one task at hand. If the most important thing in your day is finishing a spreadsheet, just focus on that until it's done. Unless the building is burining down or you need to take someone to the hospital, everything else can and will wait.
If the most important thing at home is to spend time with your wife and the kid still needs a bath and the dishes need to be done, do those other things WITH her. You're spending time AND completing the other crap.
I don't think the message is to focus on one thing 100% of the time, but to devote yourself entirely (and that can include planning a better strategy) to the one thing that matters the most to the situation at hand. I guess the biggest obstacle would be breaking down a complex situation to figure out what that most important thing is.
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